CONSIDERATIONS ON COMMUNICATIONS – BOTH VERBAL AND
NON-VERBAL IN BODY PSYCHOTHERAPY
ABSTRACT
Communication with others has both verbal and non-verbal
aspects. This article describes
theory about the use of language in body psychotherapy, ways of the psychotherapist
relating to the clientÕs language, and the psychotherapist using language with
different therapeutic purposes in mind.
Illustrative case vignettes are included. Links are made to current thinking in neuroscience and
cognitive psychology. Language in
the therapeutic relationship is discussed in terms of emotional regulation, and
spiritual awareness by combining verbal and non-verbal communications with
intention, presence, contact and awareness.
KEY WORDS
Body psychotherapy, language, communication, emotional
regulation, spiritual deepening
AuthorÕs details
Gill Westland is Director of Cambridge Body Psychotherapy
Centre and is a UKCP registered body psychotherapist, trainer, supervisor,
consultant and writer. She has
worked as a body psychotherapist for many years and has been training body
psychotherapists for the past 20 years.
She worked originally as an Occupational therapist in the NHS in Mental
Health at the Maudsley Hospital, London, and then at Fulbourn Hospital,
Cambridge as a clinician and then as a manager, clinical supervisor and
teacher. She is a full member of
the European Association for Body Psychotherapy and External Examiner for the
Karuna Institute. She is co-editor
of the Journal of Body, Movement and Dance in Psychotherapy (Taylor and
Frances). The Body Psychotherapy
training offered in Cambridge is rooted in a psycho-spiritual perspective.
Correspondence to: 8 Wetenhall Road, Cambridge, CB1
3AG gillwestland@cbpc.org.uk
www.cbpc.org.uk
CONSIDERATIONS ON COMMUNICATIONS
- BOTH VERBAL AND NON-VERBAL IN BODY PSYCHOTHERAPY
This article was published in Body, Movement and Dance in Psychotherapy,
Vol. 4, No. 2, August 2009, 121–134.
Those practising other forms of psychotherapy are sometimes
surprised that language (verbal communication) forms a central part of the therapeutic
relationship in body psychotherapy (BP).
The erroneous assumption is that body psychotherapists only work by
manipulating the body, and therefore language is superfluous. Dance therapy seems to be seen in a somewhat
similar manner.
ÒÉsome clinical practices have been exclusively based on
nonverbal behavior. For instance,
dance therapy has been developed on both sides of the Atlantic.Ó (Philippot,
Feldman, Coats, 2003, p.8)
This article will explain the role of both verbal and
non-verbal communication in body psychotherapy and illustrate this with
composite clinical examples.
Language in body psychotherapy
Body psychotherapy has evolved styles of relating to the
ÒbodymindÓ of the client to Òtalk to the bodymind.Ó alongside the more familiar
use of language, i.e. verbal communication (Liss, 1996, 1998; Boadella, 1987). Nick Totton reminds us that ÒÉ..thought
and language are not ÔmentalÕ qualities which exist over and against the
body. On the contrary, in line
with the holistic bodymind concept, thought
and language are qualities of the body itselfÉ.Ó (original
italics) (Totton, 2003, p.133). Some body psychotherapists regard spoken
words principally as energy; words carry energy and are more or less
ÒenergisedÓ. Those trained in
biodynamic (body) psychotherapy have made a significant contribution to this
understanding of the energetics of the spoken word. Likewise, Buddhist
psychology sees speech as supported by Òthe energy of breath.Ó (Watson, 2002).
Breath and speech may be seen both metaphorically and literally as
ÒlifeÓ or Òenergy.Ó Breath is also
regarded as ÒspiritÓ in various spiritual traditions.
ÒIntentionalÓ language is used by body psychotherapists alongside
other forms of communication as part of a complex web of communications in the
therapeutic relationship (Nunneley, 2000). ÒIntentionalÓ language involves the psychotherapist choosing
words with precision to serve particular therapeutic purposes.
Western culture tends to emphasise verbal aspects of
communication. We know what we can
label and talk about; words make our thoughts rational and tangible. In clinical settings, Scherer (2003, p.v) asserts:
Ò therapy in clinical settings has continued to focus on the
verbal rather than the non-verbal.
There are many reasons for the continued prevalence of the verbal in
therapy, including the intellectual influence of psychoanalysis and cognitive
therapies, the ease of obtaining verbal reports, the need to classify behaviors
and feelings into semantic categories, and the amount and effort and time
required to observe and interpret nonverbal behavior.Ó
Clinical work exists in a cultural context and this focus
on the verbal is part of a Òhierarchy of knowledgeÓ in Western society, in
which certain kinds of knowledge are subjugated to others. So the verbal, objective and rational
is regarded as superior to the intuitive, subjective, and unarticulated
knowledge (Boyce-Tillman, 2005). This
has political consequences concerning what is more valued, receives attention,
and gets research funding. Communication
is often seen as either verbal or non-verbal (and psychotherapies seen as
verbal or non-verbal psychotherapies). This conceptualisation arises from the dominance of dualism, and the tendency towards pairing phenomena with their apparent
polar opposites. Things are either/or,
rather than both/and. Interestingly,
Totton has pointed out that some body psychotherapists believe that they work
non-verbally, which is Òmainly an illusion.Ó (Totton, 2003,
p.134). Any relationship has
both verbal and non-verbal aspects occurring simultaneously. Interest in non-verbal communications in
the clinical situation is growing and has emerged from the relatively recent research
into emotion, where the significance of non-verbal communications in the
expression of emotion, and emotional regulation is being recognised (Damasio, 1994,
2000; Matsumoto, 1987; Panksepp, 1998; Solms & Turnbull 2002). Furthermore, research into mindfulness based therapies for
depression and stress reduction is also highlighting the significance of
awareness, and Òexperiencing through the bodyÓ (non-verbally) for therapeutic
change (Segal, Williams & Teasdale, 2002; Kabat-Zinn, 1990, 2005).
Language may be used for information giving, or for social
and emotional communications.
Although this distinction is somewhat artificial, often one form of
language is dominant in a conversation.
In his clinical work, Reich observed the interplay between words and
emotional states. He writes:
ÒIt is clear that language, in the process of word
formation, depends on the perception of inner movements and organ sensations,
and that words which describe emotional states render, in an immediate way, the corresponding
expressive movements of living matter.Ó (original
italics) (Reich, 1949/1970 p. 361)
These Òmovements of living matterÓ have been called the
Òfelt senseÓ(Gendlin, 1981, 1996). The felt sense is the collection of physical
sensations, both kinaesthetic and emotionally ÒtonalÓ occurring in the body,
which are the precursor of a named emotion. Similarly Damasio (1994) has described Òsomatic markersÓ existing alongside rational
thinking and providing vital information for decision making,
and essential in social communication.
Individuals talking from the Òmovement of body sensationsÓ are ÒrootedÓ in
their words. The clientÕs words have
a direct connection with what is moving
them physiologically, energetically, and emotionally, and are expressive of the
personÕs fundamental being. Often Òrooted
wordsÓ are less formed, and can emerge as sounds, and fragments of sentences
with pauses in them as the client attempts to find the correct resonant words
to convey their experience (Southwell, 1999).
Words can also be used to obfuscate, distract and
camouflage. ÒWord languageÓ often
functions as a defence. Sometimes patients are Òdrowning in
verbiageÓ, the Òmeaningless activity of musclesÓ (Reich, 1949/1970, p. 362). ÒTalking aboutÓ, defensive words
can be contrasted to Òrooted talkingÓ.
Andersen[i] has written
of Òtalking aboutÓ language as Òdead talkÓ, lacking Òliving processÓ (Andersen,
1991; Shotter & Katz, 1999). So
called Òdead talkÓ develops, when a child learns to limit their breathing from being
raised in an inhospitable environment.
ÒOne could literally say that the rather tense circumstances make the
person reduce his/her inspiration from the surroundingsÓ (Andersen, 1991, p.18).
This has both biological and
spiritual implications. In
the clinical situation the psychotherapist might choose to let the client
continue to communicate in Òtalking aboutÓ mode leaving the defence in place,
or with a more robust client the defence might be challenged.
From Òtalking aboutÓ to Òrooted talkingÓ
An example of the shift from Òtalking aboutÓ to ÒrootedÓ, emotionally
expressive talking comes in the first assessment consultation with a potential new
client. After a while I realise
that the client has not answered any of my history-taking questions
directly. She talks genially and gives
content, but I recognise that I feel a bit bored, and puzzled. I track more carefully how I feel and also
notice a certain frustration. I
then notice that, when I ask a direct question the client answers tangentially,
and I am none the wiser about anything definite, nor about her emotional state
as expressed by her words. I
decide to let her talk in a more free-floating way without asking questions,
and to attend more carefully to my own physical state (somatic
counter-transference) as it is reflecting our relationship. My presence becomes more spacious and
less cognitively insistent. Gradually
the client drops down into herself (i.e. her breathing has deepened and
fills more of her whole body, she looks more relaxed across her chest and
arms). She slowly comes to what
feel like central life statements with feeling tones attached to the words.
ÒI was never
allowed by my mother to do anything I wanted to do. Anything I did spontaneously was rubbishedÉ.Ó The client begins to cry. Ò I can never get started with anythingÉÉ..I lack confidenceÉ...IÕm angry and frustrated.Ó The
crying has peaked in intensity and moved into hot ÒchargedÓ words with more
anger in them.
By shifting my presence, and listening in a different way,
there has been a palpable effect on the client, and she has spoken from below
her conscious awareness. By the
end of the consultation I have a sense of having ÒmetÓ the client, and there is
a sense of completion and possible new beginning.
Although Reich found that language can reflect the state of
Òplasmatic movementÓ (i.e. the movement of body fluids and energy) in someone,
indicating the general sense of aliveness or ÒlivingÓ life state of the person,
he also observed that communicating only
verbally cannot reach this inner aliveness in another.
ÒThe living not only functions before and beyond word
language; more than that, it has its own
specific forms of expression which cannot be put into words at all.Ó (original italics) (Reich, 1949/1970, p. 361)
Reich made an analogy between verbal and musical
communication. Music has the
capacity to move the listener without words being spoken. Moreover, if someone hears a piece of
music and wants to convey it to another, then humming or singing it would be
more likely to do so. It would be
nonsense to attempt to speak musical notation, or to communicate verbally what
the music communicates musically.
Reich was aware of the power of music and other forms of non-linguistic
communication to take people into deep contact with themselves.
ÒWhat is described as the ÒspiritualityÓ of great music,
then, is an appropriate description of the simple fact that seriousness of
feeling is identical with contact with the living beyond the confine of words.Ó (Reich 1949/1970, p. 361)
This finding is significant in the therapeutic
relationship. It suggests that the
deepest contact and spiritual connectedness with another is probably word free.
Maura Sills writes of the
relational field of awareness developing, deepening and becoming more inclusive
of whole experience between client and psychotherapist in a joint
exploration. If the relational
field embodies qualities of stillness, warmth, empathic resonance Òimplicate
information is subliminally conveyed and known silently with clear
comprehension. Within this kind of
relational field, a client might truly hold their suffering in balance and open
to an experience of their human beingness that is beyond words.Ó (Sills, 2006,
p. 211)
Winnicott echoes this when he writes of a crucial aspect of
the mother – infant relationship in which the mother dwells in silence
alongside the infant to foster the development of the true self. ÒÉÉ.it is the experience of being alone
while someone else is present.Ó (Winnicott, 1990/1958 p. 30). The infant has an experience of the presence of the mother
whilst being free to be alone and with him or herself. The mother is neither impinging nor
depriving. The infant is freed
from the need to be alertly watching the mother and her moods to feel
safe. The child can trust the
motherÕs love and is able to simply be with his or her arising experiences.
Reich learned to interrupt the defensive speech of his
patients and thereby take the patient Òto a depth that he tried to flee.Ó This elimination of verbal (non)
communication to a focus on physiological, emotional, and energy movement to invite
deeper communication is familiar to many forms of body psychotherapy and the
basis of ÒVegetotherapyÓ, a form of psychotherapy created by Reich (1942/1961) and
subsequently developed (e.g. Southwell, 1988; Boadella, 1987). Reich learned to move away from listening
to the content of words and instead
to listen more to their form and function. He listened for Ònot only what the patient said, but everything he presented, particularly
the manner of his communication or of
his silence.Ó The how of the words was more important than
what was actually said. ÒWords can lie. The mode
of expression never lies.Ó (Reich,1942/1961, p.145) Reich saw this as the immediate
manifestation of the unconscious and learned to differentiate this from
character defence.
Interrupting the ClientÕs defensive words for more contact
A clinical example of the psychotherapist interrupting the clientÕs
words, and redirecting the focus of attention to deepen the contact between the
client and her inner self, as well as her contact with the psychotherapist is
from a session with an experienced client, Helen, who has been in body psychotherapy
for a couple of years and knows how to use the process. Helen knows that she can run away from
herself with flurries of words and ideas, and we have a working agreement for
me to interrupt her, if she does not Òcatch herselfÓ. She can find this very containing. Helen is describing a conversation with
a health worker about her ailing father.
She is getting lost in the story of who said what and her ideas of what
his care should be. I begin to
feel confused myself in the detail of the story. I breathe and
come back to myself through bringing mindfulness to my experience. I start to recollect where I began to
get confused, and my interest waned.
As I am doing this Helen is feeling uncomfortable Òsomething niggles and
is upsetting.Ó I suggest that she
pauses in the narrative and brings awareness to what is happening in her
body. She becomes more inward-focused
and somewhat reflective. Her face
begins to look Òupset.Ó I notice very
tiny movements in her face, and let myself breathe fully. ÒUpsetnessÓ seems to intensify in Helen. Waves of emotion come up HelenÕs body
emanating from the abdomen, and she sobs deeply. Through the tears she cries ÒHe is so lonely and
distressedÓ. I assume that she is
talking about herself, her father and her relationship with me. Later on we talk together about this
tapestry of meaning.
Body Psychotherapy has empirically developed ways of
working with language, but the development of modern technology such as MRI
scans (Magnetic Resonance Imaging),
C(A)T scans ( Computed (Axial) Tomography) and PET imaging (Positron
Emission Tomography) allows us to see what is active in the brain when
performing different tasks. It can
also link this to what a personÕs emotional experience is at the time. This means that Neuroscience knows much
more now about what is happening in the brain when communicating than in
ReichÕs time.
The right hemisphere of the brain is dominant in the
processing of non-verbal communication and visuo-spatial information. It is active in the expression of
emotion and in the processing of emotional information. It recognises the elements of speech
such as intonation, pitch, speed, volume, rhythm (collectively called prosody) and responds to
the evocation of stimuli outside conscious awareness. The right brain is also seen as the
unconscious. The right brain is activated by and regulated by the tone of voice and facial expression.
This is pertinent in caretaker-infant relationships for the immediate
well-being of the child and for the future development of the brain. In psychotherapy relationships it is
also highly significant.
The left hemisphere of the brain has long been considered
the verbal hemisphere which articulates through language and is concerned with
structuring and processing information.
It is also more about a conscious understanding of what the other thinks
of me (Schore, 1994). In the 1970s
drawing with the non-dominant hand was encouraged in the humanistic psychology movement
as a way of freeing up creative expression and inviting the spontaneous and
intuitive to rebalance an over rational culture (Clarkson, 1989). This rebalancing and connecting left
and right brain functions remains a central therapeutic issue. By attending to both verbal and non
verbal communication BP endeavours to integrate these functions.
The autonomic nervous system (ANS) is also involved in the
communication of emotion by amplifying, sustaining and modulating the intensity
of emotional experiences. We can
consider different emotions as belonging relatively more to the sympathetic
nervous system (arousing aspect) or parasympathetic nervous system (calming
aspect). Rage and frustration, for
example are
more arousing emotions, and sadness and joy are more calming ones (e.g. Reich,
1942/1961; Westland, 1987; Liss, 1989; Carroll, 2005). This capacity to regulate feeling
states develops in the infant-mother relationship and is essential for the
brain to develop optimally. An
attuned caregiver is responsive to her babyÕs needs. This includes relating to the level of arousal, and
consciousness of the child. It
also includes helping the infant to negotiate misattunements. Both caregiver and child will be actively
involved in this relational dance (see for example Stern, 1985; Brazelton &
Cramer, 1991; Schore, 1994; Murray & Andrews, 2000; Trevarthen, 2003; Gerhardt,
2004; Carroll, 2005).
The therapeutic relationship has both verbal and non-verbal
communications going on between psychotherapist and client. These are particularly significant in
helping clients to regulate their emotions and to complete interrupted
developmental states. For the body
psychotherapist, an overarching question is what is happening in the client, and
in myself right now, and from moment to moment? What am I/the client experiencing, sensing, thinking,
feeling, imaging right now? What is the level of arousal and level of consciousness
of the client? How is the client
attempting to move towards a greater level of well-being? Various theories, e.g. the
charge-discharge cycle, (Reich, 1942/1961), the Vasomotoric Cycle (Boyesen,
1975; Southwell, 1988; Westland, 1997; Eiden, 2002), are held in the background
awareness of the psychotherapist about the state of arousal or conversely the resting
state of the client. These
theories also include thinking about the movement of inner impulses. These impulses are physiological, energetic
and emotional, and Òimpinge from within,Ó attempting to move the person towards
more wholeness and the completion of arrested development. The working assumption is that both the
clientÕs and the psychotherapistÕs systems are fluid, continually changing, and
expanding to include more, and to go towards greater health. And, moreover, that they interact
through the communication, both verbal and non verbal.
From this awareness of the process the psychotherapist decides
what she wants to relate to in the client, what sort of relationship is
required, what to ÒinviteÓ, and what intention to hold. For newly qualified psychotherapists
this process can seem quite technical and cognitive, but with experience
techniques become honed skills. With
further maturity and experience these skills become embedded, just part of the
human-beingness of the psychotherapist
(Kurtz, 1990)
Sometimes there will be more right brain to right brain
conversation (one unconscious to another) when there will be more going into
the unknown, and being receptive to what is Òimpinging from withinÓ, and at other times the clientÕs left
brain will be more engaged, perhaps by gathering factual information. In practice, the relationship with a
client moves in a dance-like way between the relative dominance of either
hemisphere in an unfolding process.
Key aspects of the therapeutic relationship
Many body psychotherapists regard presence, resonance, and intention
as key aspects of the therapeutic relationship.
Presence is something akin to empathy or attunement, but it
is more than these terms imply. It
is about resonating with the
client – somatically,
energetically, emotionally, and imaginally, and being present to direct somatic
experience of the client. Embodied
presence invites presence in those around us. This form of relating is more at an implicit, non-verbal
level, the right brain of the psychotherapist communicating with the right
brain of the client. When this
happens the client will feel ÒreceivedÓ and understood. However, oftentimes, when the
psychotherapist is frightened or triggered by the client the therapist will go
to left brain interventions such as interpretation and explanation when what is
needed is a Òbeing withÓ response.
Often the psychotherapist will be unaware of these reactions (Schore,
1994).
Nevertheless, these misattuned events are key moments
therapeutically and potentially transformative in the relationship, but too
many of them can leave a client feeling that the therapist is just not on the
same wave-length and the psychotherapy is likely to be terminated prematurely.
Resonance involves the psychotherapist somatically sensing the
impact of the client.
ÒThe emotional
expression of the patient produces in our organism an involuntary imitation. Imitating, we feel and understand the expression in
ourselves and with that in the patient.
Since every motion has an expression and thus discloses the emotional state of the
protoplasm. The language of expression becomes an essential means of
communication with the patientÕs emotions.Ó (Reich 1949/1970, p. 364)
Since the discovery of mirror neurons (Gallese, 2005) we
know more about the neurophysiology of this process of Òembodied simulationÓ,
occurring at an implicit level and its function in social communications. Reich knew the importance of getting
the feel of a patient. He writes:
ÒOnly when we
have felt the facial expression of the patient are we also in
a position to understand it. To
ÒunderstandÓ it means here, quite, strictly to know which emotion is
ÒexpressedÓ in it.Ó (original italics) (Reich,
1949/1970, p 363)
Usually if a therapist is to notice this impact more
consciously a slowing down of awareness is necessary. Time is also needed to feel and digest the impact, and only
then to respond to the client with considered speech. Andersen explains that if the psychotherapistÕs words are
too ÒunusualÓ or not ÒunusualÓ enough they will either have too much impact or
not enough. In feeling the impact
it becomes clearer where there are ÒopeningsÓ about what to talk more about (Andersen,
1991)
Intention
Intention is Òexpressed through subtle and delicate variations on touch
and vocal tone.Ó (Bonenfant 2006, p.120). Bonenfant relates this to the
therapistÕs Òsomatic modes of attentionÓ as applied to Òcorporeal and
attitudinal intention,Ó which Csordas[ii]
has written about. I would add
presence to this, and observe that the communication does not require physical touching. It is a combination of the intention
and presence of the psychotherapist that can have such a potent impact on the
client. As a therapist, using
intentional language involves tuning into oneself on as many levels as possible
– somatic, energetic, cognitive, intuitive, imaginative - by experiencing
through the body the impact that the
client is having. Nunneley (2000)
writes of Òattending to the whole personÓ and then ÒintendingÓ. Attending shifts awareness between
attending to oneself and to the client.
Awareness and attention can be sometimes more specifically focused and
sometimes more diffuse. Rainer
Pervšltz has emphasised that having a mental attitude of intending to achieve
something is actually limiting, Òthe biggest obstacle to change is the pressure
to changeÓ (Pervšltz, 1982, p. 139). So intention is an embodied, lightly held trust in the
process. Pervšltz continues: ÒMy
role as a therapist is to help you rediscover that you can swim – even in
deep and seemingly dangerous water.
If only you trust that you can, you can.Ó The form of words used by the psychotherapist will reflect
the way that s/he wants to impact on client.
There are two basic choices when considering emotional
modulation in the therapeutic relationship. Emotional arousal can be amplified or reduced, depending on
the therapeutic need. The therapeutic
encounter can be conducted more at the Òemotional levelÓ or conversely Òthe
matter of fact levelÓ of consciousness.
These levels are also called the Òtragic and trivial levelsÓ (Boyesen,
2006). Matter of fact
relating is close to everyday consciousness and can take the client away from
overwhelming feelings. Emotional
deepening can take a client towards the discovery of an inner world with strong
feeling tones attached to it. At
its more profound level it takes the client into stillness, being, and interconnectedness
with the universal. At this level
of consciousness the boundary between individuals dissolves – there is
interconnection.
Clients who have suffered early deprivation, invasion or
trauma often lack the ability to regulate their emotions. It may be inappropriate to enter into either
a transferential or a real relationship (Rothschild, 2000). What is helpful is to talk relatively more
to the left brain with the idea of restricting the intensity of feeling. For this the therapistÕs presence is
closer to the every day level of consciousness – attending to what is
known and explicit. It can involve
naming what is happening, describing events without inviting the emotional
tones, and giving ÒheadlinesÓ of key events rather than going into them. The client is encouraged to reflect on
the process. The therapist also holds
the relationship more Òshort reinÓ with the sense of space between client and
therapist reduced so that there is less room for the client to become
overwhelmed with feelings. The
process will be relatively more outer-directed with the therapist taking more overall
charge about what is discussed.
The late Gerda Boyesen, who developed Biodynamic
Psychotherapy found ways of relating to clients and their spontaneous
movements, which are often more at an implicit, barely discernible level in the
energy field. In this work the psychotherapist
brings presence, contact, awareness of the clientÕs level of
consciousness together and uses language that the right brain can
understand. Boyesen differentiated
ÒItÓ and ÒIÓ language. So called
ÒIÓ language has a somebody, who is experiencing a
feeling and owning it. For example
ÒI am angry with you.Ó In contrast ÒItÓ language used by the
therapist has no ego in it and is more diffuse. ÒItÓ language can take the client into emotional energy and
the universal, where the boundary between myself and others is indistinct. This is not the same as merging with
the client. To invite ÒItÓ energy the
therapist uses descriptive, non-personalised words. For example Òthere is anger aroundÉ..Ó The anger is neither
yours or mine, itÕs in the atmosphere, and the intersubjective
relationship.
If the body psychotherapist tunes into the client and senses
that there is something impinging from within, she may switch to ÒItÓ
language. The psychotherapist
talks more to the clientÕs intrapsychic processes. As this becomes the focus of awareness, the interpersonal
aspects of relationship fade more into the background. Body psychotherapists often describe
this as Òtalking to the energyÓ.
The body psychotherapistÕs energised words talk to the energy of the client.
The psychotherapist might say something likeÉ..Ólet it moveÉÉÉ.., feel where it wants to moveÉÉ.Ó
At this point the body psychotherapistÕs language and
presence are critical. Her
presence needs to be anchored, but spacious and long rein, suggestive of
endless time. The client may make
sounds, or utter words, which are unlikely to be coherent sentences. Spontaneous changes in breathing, and movements will
also occur. The therapist quietly
notices these and is available to receive the spontaneous ÒbeingnessÓ of the
client, rather than anything mechanical or produced.
Penny is lying down on the mattress (a usual piece of
furniture in a body psychotherapy consulting room equivalent to the analytic
couch). She is in her fourth year
of psychotherapy and now has a coherent daily life. The act of lying down invites slowing down, softening and
surrender. It is a familiar way for
us to be together. I sit by her
side on the floor. She has closed her
eyes. Almost without needing to
say anything, I suggest ÒÉÉ let yourself go inside, ÉÉfeel
what is happening ÉÉ.. Ò My tone
is soft, and suggesive of there being time.
After a while Penny notices that her breathing feels
restricted and tight.
Gently, I suggest that she might let her breathing move
into the restriction.
As she does this her breathing changes, becoming somewhat
chaotic, then begins to flow apparently more easily. There are minute movements in her hands, and as the
movements become bigger, I suggest ÒÉÉÉfeel what the hands want to doÉÉÉ.Ó
Tears begin to trickle, and develop into loud sobs. PennyÕs body shudders and her arms
reach out.
Ò ÉÉ.I want my Mummy, I want my
MummyÉ..Ó
I feel pain and longing in my chest, as if I will die with
the unbearableness of it.
Penny continues to call insistently for her mother; the
tones of her words are heart-rending, sometimes more angry (ÒMummyÕs not
comingÓ) and then Penny says that she is beginning to feel good. ÒI didnÕt know that I could shout that
loudÉ.,É. I feel warm all overÉÉÉ. my arms and hands are tinglingÉ..É.. I feel
pleasantly tired, and my chest feels warm and pulsating.Ó
In this session, the focus is on letting the clientÕs impulses
emerge rhythmically in their own time.
The therapeutic task is to tune into the impulses, to support their
emergence, and to ÒwitnessÓ, like a midwife what is completing itself. In later sessions there will be
discussion, and meaning brought to the experiences of the session. ÒMeaningÓ is used here in the sense
that Gendlin has described it as perceptual awareness rather than a conceptual understanding
(Gendlin, 1996). Meaning is not
imposed on the client. The client needs
to have time and solitude to absorb the experience and create their own meaning. Out of this, there might, later on, be
new conceptualisations arising.
The way language is used in body psychotherapy reflects the
complexity of the therapeutic relationship and the particular journey of each
client. Verbal interventions are
always coupled with considerations about presence, intention, and attention to
levels of consciousness in client and psychotherapist. The psychotherapist is required to continually
shift attention between relatively more right-brained and more left-brained
interventions and to spontaneously use language for different kinds of dialogue
and therapeutic outcomes. Certain
language usage seems to benefit particular client groups and the clinical use
of particular forms of language in body psychotherapy would merit further
study.
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
I would like to thank Clover Southwell for many hours of discussion
on this and other topics.
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[i] Tom Andersen, Professor of Social Psychiatry and Family
therapist, was greatly influenced
by the Norwegian physiotherapist Aadel BŸlow-Hansen (1905-2001), who in turn
may be regarded as the grandmother of not only biodynamic (body) psychotherapy,
but of a long tradition of physiotherapy practice within mental health in
Norway.
[ii] Thomas J. Csordas is a psychological anthropologist who
has written on embodiment in anthropology and Òsomatic modes of attentionÓ i.e. culturally constructed
ways of understanding the world through the body. He views the
body as being as important as the
mind for feeling our way in the world and writes of Ôembodied cognitionsÕ See for example Csordas, Thomas J., (2002).
BODY/MEANING/HEALING, London: Palgrave
Macmillan.